"I'm not a kid anymore!! come on, stop this! u don't have to keep checking my phone or install parenting system in my laptop! u don't have to keep telling me something I've known!"
Maybe this is a problem that u guys are having. I'm here not to tell a lecture about how u should act or blahblahblah coz i'm also a teenagers which felt something like this.
your parents always act like they should know everything about us, they keep telling you about something u've known for ages, once they are angry, they keep saying the same thing, repeat it for thousand times and they speak like they are talking to themselves?
ah, I know how that feel.
you want them to not keep saying, but listen. you want them to understand, not to stalk.
I had that kind of problem too which made my mom and I fight like a cat and a mouse everyday in my house.
there's always new problems everyday. but now, well, both of us have changed and bad things happen rarely.
wanna know the secret?
sometimes u should listen too and stop talking. I'm not going to blame you or act like most of the adults out there but there's something u should know. you want to be heard so you should hear.
"I've heard hundreds of lectures everyday from my parents and I'm sick of it!"
ok, now for you guys who've heard too much about what your parents said, then what u should do is talk to your parents. Let them know how you feel. be communicative and never ask something rudely. You wanna be heard, then sit nicely, talk in your living room relaxly so both of you could have better communication.
so the point is, be communicative. they could tell you how they feel, you could tell them how you feel.
hope this article could help you.
